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Self-Care During Wedding Planning: Because You Deserve It!

Updated: 4 days ago


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Ah, wedding planning—the whirlwind of excitement, joy, and let's be honest...stress.

As you juggle choosing a venue, tasting cakes, and sending out invitations, it's easy to forget one crucial thing: taking care of you. Yes, the bride (or groom, or whoever’s handling the planning). You deserve self-care just as much as your big day does. Here’s how to find a little peace and pampering amidst the chaos.


1. Set Boundaries

Wedding planning is full of opinions, and sometimes those opinions come from

family, friends, and even random strangers. As much as you love them, it’s

essential to set clear boundaries on what’s helpful and what’s not. If someone

wants to weigh in on the color of the napkins but you're feeling overwhelmed, it's

OK to say, "Thanks, but we're set!" Prioritize your needs over everyone else’s

advice and stand firm. You'll thank yourself later!


2. Red Light Therapy: Glow Like Never Before

Want to get that pre-wedding glow without any heavy lifting? Enter red light

therapy. It’s like a facial in a light bulb! Red light therapy helps to improve skin

tone, reduce inflammation, and boost collagen production—all the things you

need for smooth, radiant skin as you count down the days to the wedding.

Use a handheld red light therapy device or visit a spa for a session. After just a

few treatments, your skin will be more even-toned, radiant, and ready for those

close-up shots! It’s a great way to keep your skin fresh and glowing, even when

your to-do list is anything but.


3. Book a Spa Day (or 3)

If you can’t justify a spa day during wedding planning, when can you? A massage,

facial, or mani-pedi will do wonders for your stress levels and help you reset.

Bonus points if you can recruit your bridesmaids to join in on the fun. Imagine the

relaxing conversation and the ability to talk about everything BUT the wedding.

It's a win-win!


4. Mask It Up! Hydrate & Revive

You deserve a little extra pampering, and face masks are the perfect go-to.

Whether it’s a hydrating mask for a dewy finish, a detoxifying clay mask for a

fresh start, or an overnight mask for a beauty sleep boost, these little beauty

miracles help you unwind while rejuvenating your skin.

You can even take it a step further with undereye masks to help with puffiness

and dark circles—hello, tired bride! They’ll keep you looking wide-eyed and ready

to take on whatever the wedding planning universe throws your way. Plus, who

doesn’t love a good excuse to lounge on the couch for 15 minutes with your feet

up?


5. Sleep is Non-Negotiable

Sleep is often the first thing to go when wedding planning gets intense. But here's

the thing—your body and brain need rest, so don't skimp on it. Try setting a cut-

off time for wedding-related tasks each day. Once you hit that time, power down

and go to sleep. Sweet dreams can be the best form of self-care because, let’s

face it, you’ll look way better in your wedding photos when you’re well-rested.

Trust us!


6. Exercise, Even If It's Just a Dance Party

Exercise is a game changer for stress, but we know you’re busy. So, instead of

doing a full-blown workout (unless that’s your thing), turn up the music and have

a little dance party in your living room. Bonus: It’s wedding prep in disguise! If you

can’t shake off those wedding planning jitters, busting a move might just do the

trick. You get your heart pumping and your mind off the details. Win-win!


7. Glow From Within: Skincare Routine to the Rescue!

Let’s face it: there’s no better feeling than having soft, radiant skin—and during

wedding planning, you need that glow. Skincare is the ultimate act of self-care,

and it’s easy to incorporate into your busy schedule. Start with a gentle cleanser

to remove the day’s stress, followed by a hydrating toner and a nourishing

moisturizer. Bonus points if you use products with calming ingredients like aloe

vera or chamomile to soothe any stress-induced breakouts!

Don’t forget to exfoliate! Once a week, treat yourself to a gentle scrub or

exfoliating mask to get rid of dead skin cells and reveal that fresh, glowing

complexion. Your skin will thank you, and you’ll be ready for all those pre-

wedding photos!


8. Eat Well (And Treat Yourself)

In the midst of sampling cakes and tasting caterers, make sure you’re fueling your

body with nutritious foods. Healthy meals can give you sustained energy and keep

you from feeling sluggish. That being said, don’t forget to treat yourself to a little

indulgence now and then. Whether it’s a decadent chocolate croissant or a glass

of bubbly, self-care is about balance.


9. Practice Mindfulness (Even for 5 Minutes)

If you’ve never meditated before, this is the perfect time to start! You don’t need

to go full Zen master on day one—just start small. Try taking five minutes each

day to sit quietly, breathe deeply, and focus on the present. Mindfulness can

lower your stress and boost your overall well-being, making those big decisions

(like which flowers to pick) seem a little easier.


10. Stress? What Stress? Let’s Talk Bath Salts & Relaxation

One of the best ways to de-stress during wedding planning is with a luxurious

bath. Picture this: a hot bath with your favorite bath salts (Epsom salt is a great

go-to for relaxation), a few candles, and your favorite playlist in the background.

Ahhh, perfection. Bath salts aren’t just for indulgence—they can help soothe sore muscles and

promote relaxation. They’re the perfect way to unwind after a long day of dress

shopping, vendor meetings, or sending out invites. Take your time, breathe

deeply, and let the stress melt away with every soak.

Pro tip: add a few drops of your favorite essential oils (lavender is chef's kiss) to enhance the experience.


Take Care of YOU!

Wedding planning can be a lot, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.

Remember to take a step back, breathe, and give yourself permission to relax.

After all, this is your moment to shine, and you deserve to enjoy the journey, not

just the day. So go ahead—plan that spa day, have that dance-off, and savor those chocolate croissants. You’ve got this, and self-care will make it even sweeter!

 
 
 

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