Just Got Engaged? Here’s What to Do Next (Besides Staring at Your Ring 24/7)

Engaged and loving it!

First of all - CONGRATULATIONS!! You just got engaged, and we’re over here throwing imaginary confetti like it’s our full-time job. Whether it happened during a dreamy vacation, over a casual dinner, or in your favorite sweats on the couch (hey, romance has no rules), this is a major moment.

Now that you’ve posted the ring pic, called your grandma, and screamed a little (or a lot), you might be wondering… what the heck do I do next?

Don’t worry - we got you. Here’s a list of fun, practical, and just plain feel-good things to do right after you get engaged:

1. Have a “Just Us” Moment 

Before the questions and planning begin, take a moment with your fiancé(e). Go out to eat, take a walk, or pop a bottle of bubbly at home. Soak it in. This moment is once in a lifetime—don’t rush past it.

2. Get the Ring Insured (Like, ASAP) 

Not the sexiest to-do, but VERY necessary. Your ring is gorgeous and meaningful… and also a tiny piece of valuable jewelry that deserves protection. Call your renters or homeowners insurance provider and ask about adding it to your policy. Trust us, you’ll sleep better.

3. Announce It Your Way 

You can go big on Instagram or keep it private for close friends and fam—do what feels right. Pro tip: Tell your inner circle before posting online. Your mom doesn’t want to find out via Facebook (and she will remember if she does).

4. Get Your Nails Done (If You Want To!)

You’re about to be showing your hand a LOT. If you’re into having a fresh mani, treat yourself! It’s a cute way to make the engagement feel even more official.

5. Start Dreaming, Not Planning 

Before you dive headfirst into venues and vendors, start by dreaming. Talk about what you both envision. Backyard BBQ? Destination glam? Elopement in the mountains? There are no rules—just what’s right for YOU TWO.

6. Set a Vibe, Not a Date (Yet) 

Everyone will ask, “WHEN’S THE WEDDING?!” Don’t feel pressured to know right away. Instead, think about your ideal season, size, or vibe. That will help narrow down your options without locking you in too fast.

7. Celebrate with Your People 

Whether it’s brunch with your besties, dinner with the fam, or a full-on engagement party, find a way to celebrate this chapter. It deserves its own spotlight.

8. Create a Wedding Email 

Here’s a game-changing tip: Create a wedding-specific email (e.g., smithwedding2026@gmail.com). That way, all vendor quotes, contracts, and inspo boards stay in one place. Future you will THANK YOU.

9. Start a Pinterest Board, Obviously 

Let’s be real—you’ve probably been pinning for years. But now you can do it guilt-free! Start organizing ideas for dresses, decor, color palettes, and vibes. It’s a fun way to explore styles together.

10. Don’t Panic—You Don’t Have to Plan Everything This Week 

The wedding industry can make it feel like you need a full vision board, guest list, and color scheme by tomorrow. You don’t. Take it slow. Enjoy the “just engaged” bubble. You’ll get to the planning part when it’s time.

Enjoy the Journey!

Getting engaged is more than just planning a wedding- it’s about starting a new chapter with your favorite person. So breathe, laugh, and soak up every little magical moment.

Now go take one more ring selfie. You’ve earned it. 💍